oh yes dearies.
i am free.
free from all the sufferings.the enviousness.the pains.the low grades.
i assure myself that i'll have my revenge.
and no, it's not the bad one. it's the subtle kind of one. the one where you go higher above the two people who hurt you the most. i mean, the part where you get a hot guy, higher grades, everything that you want, hot clothes and everything. God, do i sound like Paris Hilton? Haha. but still.
there are a lot of things that i learned in this thing that i entered. here are ten of them. and i'll share it to you guys.
Ten Things to Remember When You're Crushin' on a Guy:
1. be subtle. don't go head on. nowadays, it's okay to make the first move. the first move in the sense that you text first, or yout alk first. i don't know how others do it. just don't overdo it.
2. keep it as friends. don't go farther. let him do it. if he ever wants you guys to be bestfriends, or more.
3. never be dominant.
4. if you want to make a good impression [and who doesnt?], don't bad-mouth or backstabb other people. and don't tell him the bad stuff that you think about other people to him.
5. always listen to advice of the elders. tsk tsk tsk. haha.
6. always attempt to look good, smell good and smile! and yeah, always remember to feel good about yourself!
7. if ever that you find out that the apple of your eye has another apple of his eye, don't bad mouth the girl, or attempt to direct his affection to you. also, NEVER, NEVER be the bridge between them. i mean, never help them be together. perfect example: when he asks you to give "her" something from "him", don't give it. especially if it's something, like a teddy bear. believe me, it'll hurt!
8. actually, the best thing to do if your crush has another crush is to move on. what you should do is asses the situation. if you think you have a chance, then go, but be careful. if he's head-over-heels inlove, back off, i'd say.
9. in under any circumstance, try to tell the fewest number of people about your crush. that way, things will be easier to work out. if you really are into getting the man, and is willing to plan, then tell ONLY the people involved about your feelings for him. if you're the babblative kind, then it's up to you. you can't help yourself now, can you?
1o. if things go wrong and if he gets in a relationship [only that it's not with you], don't feel bad. i mean, of course you'll feel bad, but what i mean is: it's not the end of the world. there are many fish in the sea. learn to move on! it'll help if you have another crush [and i mean crush like not obsession or a thing below love, a fun-crush. a crush just for the sake of having one] if you're like me. sometimes, having friends help.
these ten things only work if you are full-on, having a big big gigantic crush on this guy.
one tip: THINK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING. think of what will happen. perceive and asses.
okay, so i hope those 11 tips help! tell me if they do! ;)